Category Archives: BDSM toys
Spiky Glans Ring Review – Stainless Steel Cock Ring

I always love receiving a parcel from the folks at MEO, especially when the product is as awesome as the steel dildo they sent me last year, even if that particular review did earn me a trolling. Anyway, onwards to the next MEO provided review. It’s a little scary this time, and it is the Spiky Glans Ring.
Purple Suede Flogger Review

Surely a flogger must be one of the first things anyone looking to get into spanking looks at, right? Well, it certainly was for us here at subsmissives. As a consequence, I became kinda blasé about the humble flogger. However, they have a place in your sexy kitbag regardless of your level of expertise. The Purple Suede Flogger Read More
Squeezer teaser clover leaf nipple clamps

It’s no secret that I love a bit of nipple play – some might say unusual for a chap, I say sod off, I like it and maybe you should try it.
What started with some suckers and then some clamps, like in this story, has become a bit of an obsession. Like, seriously, there are Read More
Oscuro Leather Tawse with Devils Tail Review

A while ago, I brought you a review of the Oscuro Bullwhip from Latex Leather & Lace, it was pretty awesome, and when I asked for more of the same, they sent me the Devils Tail Oscuro Leather Tawse.
The Oscuro Leather Tawse is a stiff, heavy Read More
Cupping – review & guide

As those who know me well will attest, I know a lot of shiz. And if I don’t know it, I’ll bluff it; people believe confidence. Cupping is one of those things that I knew existed, and I kinda knew what it involved, this basically made me an expert. Then when a certain swimmer was spotted Read More
Oscuro Bullwhip from Latex Leather & Lace

Latex, Leather & Lace are a friendly UK independent online shop selling lots of kinky kit, and I was lucky enough to be sent the Oscuro Bullwhip for review. Oscuro is Latex Leather & Lace’s own brand of bondage goodies.
Well, I say lucky, but that’s probably not the adjective most would use. You see, everything about the Oscuro Bullwhip is a little bit menacing, a little bit serious.
Bound Nubuck HogTie 4-way Restraint

In all the hours I’ve spent in bondage, up until the lovely folk at sextoys.co.uk shined their light on me, I had never experienced the hogtie. Well, now I have. And what a place to start – the Bound Nubuck HogTie sets the bar high.
Bound Nubuck Leather Heart Shaped Crop

I dunno about you, but I associate nubuck with my teen years, and that means the nineties (yes I am that old). The Bound Nubuck Leather Heart Shaped Crop however is truly a fine piece of kit that my teen self would have had absolutely no clue over what it was. We possess several crops already, but when sextoys.co.uk offered me this to review, I jumped at the chance.
My package from sextoys.co.uk arrived safely, discreetly and quickly. I had to take my machete-like utility knife to get into the well-sealed bag, but when I finally did get through the packaging, I set eyes on the goodies within and immediately asked M to invoke the spank test.
“Tomorrow”, she said.
So when tomorrow came, and the kids were safely asleep in bed I whipped Read More
Orgasm Control with Electrastim

Dearest reader, I want to introduce you to one of Mistress’ best friends.
It’s a sextoy like no other, but one which has featured in several places on the blog already. Mistress likes it so much since it has an effect on me like nothing else. It produces reactions that I just have no control over, and the sadistic streak in her likes the fact that she, ultimately, has caused that reaction.