29 May

Waiting – Mistress’ Friend & Ally



Oh waiting how I lovehate thee. So simple in guise, so simple to use, yet nothing more effective has come to the fore.

 

Oh waiting how I lovehate thee.  Sometimes you are short sometimes you seemingly never end, Mistress’ friend, merely my acquaintance.

 

Oh waiting, how I lovehate thee.  Together with Mistress you taunt my mind, of possibilities yet to unfold.

 

Oh waiting, how I lovehate thee.  When I long for more you appear, when I want for you, you are nowhere near.

 

Oh waiting, how I lovehate thee.  You give me time to reflect, for my senses to expand and anticipation to build.

 

The wait. Such a simple yet powerful tool in the hands of Mistress.

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Mistress knows full well that my mind likes to dance off on kinky possibilities of what might be afoot.  She will pause mid-scene, or maybe keep me waiting for an age before anything even begins.  She knows my mind is my sanctuary, and that the wait lets me in.

 

I love the wait. It lets me find peace in the midst of a spanking.  I love the wait. It buys me respite when I am busy serving Her need.  I love the wait. I know it means She is preparing, She is thinking, and good things are yet to come. I love the wait.

 

I hate the wait.  I don’t want to stop.  I hate the wait.  I want more now.  I hate the wait. I long for feelings; I don’t care what they are I just want to feel.  I hate the wait. For fear of what might follow.  I hate the wait.

 

Where’s the wait in BDSM?  It’s everywhere.  Bondage – you must wait whilst being bound; the more you wait the more intense the bondage.  Domination – the Dominant is master not only of the sub but of the subs time; the wait is the Dominants ticking companion.  Sadism – the delight from causing pain is only heightened by the wait.  Masochism – the masochist must wait for what they crave; making its final receipt ever more impactful.

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How do you work waiting into playtime…?

 

 

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