I’d really love to try spanking, but I’m afraid it will hurt too much. Does this sound like you? Well, maybe you should try the spank test.
What is this spank test you mention?
Good question, and when it was first suggested to me by an uber-spankee, this was my reaction too.
The spank test is a kinky suck it and see type arrangement. A way to sound out the paddles, to cut out the crop, and to whip up a stir about what does and doesn’t work for you.