07 Jun

Purple Suede Flogger Review

Surely a flogger must be one of the first things anyone looking to get into spanking looks at, right?  Well, it certainly was for us here at subsmissives.  As a consequence, I became kinda blasé about the humble flogger.  However, they have a place in your sexy kitbag regardless of your level of expertise.  The Purple Suede Flogger Read More

04 Dec

Oscuro Bullwhip from Latex Leather & Lace

Latex, Leather & Lace are a friendly UK independent online shop selling lots of kinky kit, and I was lucky enough to be sent the Oscuro Bullwhip for review.  Oscuro is Latex Leather & Lace’s own brand of bondage goodies.

 

Well, I say lucky, but that’s probably not the adjective most would use.  You see, everything about the Oscuro Bullwhip is a little bit menacing, a little bit serious.

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29 Sep

House of Eros Medium Weight Flogger

I can be a little obsessive, I don’t know about yourself, but no matter how hard I try, some things I just get fixated on. My phone for example, although owing to a freak accident my current phone is a crock of steaming poop, it goes everywhere with me.  In an effort to be cool over the existence of my blog, I have not synced anything subsmissives related with my phone.  The House of Eros Medium Weight Flogger however, is the result of an email that is making me reconsider that.

 

You see, I was on a short break, as seems to the fashion in the month of August, despite the frankly daylight  Read More

27 Jul

spank test

I’d really love to try spanking, but I’m afraid it will hurt too much.  Does this sound like you?  Well, maybe you should try the spank test.

 

What is this spank test you mention?

Good question, and when it was first suggested to me by an uber-spankee, this was my reaction too.

The spank test is a kinky suck it and see type arrangement.  A way to sound out the paddles, to cut out the crop, and to whip up a stir about what does and doesn’t work for you.

 

 

Ohhh, sounds interesting, tell me more…?

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15 Jul

Snap Strap from Tantus

About 6 weeks ago now, Tantus sent me a package of review items.  So far, we’ve loved the Tantus Plunge, and had mixed experience with the Tantus Curve, now it’s the turn of the Tantus Snap Strap.

 

I had really high hopes for the Snap Strap, my research had learned of a real vicious sting, and after experiencing the Plunge, I don’t mind admitting I was a little scared of exactly what it might bring. Read More

29 Jun

tantus plunge silicone paddle




Where do I start with the Tantus Plunge?  This is a paddle I have wanted for what can only be described as fages.  The trouble when you’ve wanted something for so long is that a pedestal begins to form, and sometimes the toy just doesn’t live up to those expectations.

 

So I’ve decided to begin by asking, how do you like your spanking? 

Is it hard?

Is it gently?

Perhaps noisily? Read More

13 Jun

Classic Leather Tawse for SH!

The Classic Leather Tawse is my first delivery from Sh! Womenstore, so it was a lovely surprise to find, within the plain jiffybag, a beautifully wrapped package.  Well, this is what Mistress has said anyway; I just wanted to see the Tawse!

 

Within our beautifully wrapped package was the red version, in all its resplendent leather and suede and shiny stainless steelness. Read More

28 Mar

first experience of subspace

I’ve heard of this thing called subspace.  I’ve read about it online, and to be honest it sounds like a load of bollocks.

How on earth is it possible to be so “out of it”, that you are not aware of what is going on, and that your Domme needs to be careful of what she does?

Only, now I’ve experienced subspace and my opinion has changed. Read More

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