03 Oct

Orgasm and Orgasm and Orgasm

Multiple orgasms are for some the holy grail of sexual activity.  Over the years, I feel like I’ve become almost expert in helping Mistress to achieve minutes of orgasm at a time.  Of course, the genius isn’t all my own, because without a Doxy or the Tango, or the Satisfyer, I’d be pretty useless.

 

Useless is a fact that Mistress likes to rub in my face often.  She knows that once I’ve had an orgasm, I’m pretty much good for nothing.  This is where tease and denial and edge play come in, and for some extra kinky shenanigans, ruined orgasm.

 

But, is all that about to change?

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02 May

Mistress – my Queening

Since the birth of child number 2, our opportunity to indulge in BDSM has diminished.  The days or rather extended weekends of Domme/sub play have turned into little snippets when and where we can.

 

What this means though is that sometimes it comes at the most unexpected of times, and whereas in our relationship previously we kept the vanilla and the spice separate, today they live alongside each other.

 

Let me share with you an event from earlier this month.

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02 Apr

We Vibe Tango

If you are at all familiar with my blog, then you’ll have read about the we vibe Tango, for us it is ubiquitous – very rarely does any sort of playtime not involve the Tango.

 

In fact, it really is such an essential that we have 2, a MkI in purple and a MkII in pink.

 

It was a no-brainer really that this would be my second new review on subsmissives.

 

Much like the Doxy, which I wrote about yesterday, the we vibe Tango defines the genre, before we tried the Tango we had been through many many bullet vibes, some good, some not so good, I’m sure this happens up and down the country, in fact world-over.  So if you’ve tried Read More

28 Mar

a luncheon with Mistress

Let me take you back to the halcyon days of late summer of 2013.

Do you remember it?  Here in the London area we had had a pretty poor start to August, with lots of rain, although it wasn’t especially cold, it was wet.  Then, mid-way through the month the weather changed and we had some gloriously sunny weather blown in from the continent.  As is usual for the UK, this brought about a frenzy of short skirts, summer dresses and topless gents.

It was during this time that we were fortunate enough to persuade family to take our child on their holiday, and we had some quality 24/7 D/s time, which suited me to a tee.  I am not a fan of hot weather, and during D/s play, we tend Read More

28 Mar

pinned onto the floor

I have a real thing for all things surrounding the ankle.

Toes, feet, calves, heels, shoes, you name it, it just fascinates me.  This is a fact Mistress is only too aware of.

Mistress has many shoes, which pleases me greatly (shhh!), but of course I love the stilettos the most, and there is one particular teeteringly high pair of matt black stilettos with a red sole that She has that just do incredible things to Her legs.

One of the very first experiences we had in the Mistress/sub roles involved these very shoes.

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